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Jul 25, 2023Liked by Marjie Alonso

I love your father. I love your relationship with your father. I love that you share both with us. Thank you.

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Jul 26, 2023Liked by Marjie Alonso

Please bring us more word debates! Iā€™m gonna start using yesterday night. And frequently feel gruntled already!

Fabulous wordplay from you both!

Such fun!

(Sorry about all the exclamation marks, they felt very necessary. )

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šŸ™„ When teaching my daughter to drive the family van, I would lob an empty 5 gallon bucket across her path, teaching evasive maneuvers! (safely, in an empty parking lot!!) She now drives like a Moroccan taxi driver! (total respect to Morrocan taxi drivers šŸ‘)

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Jul 27, 2023Ā·edited Jul 27, 2023Liked by Marjie Alonso

I (feel) I'm getting older and wonder if I need a philologist.

I feel like some part of dad's strategy is like the Johnny Cash song, 'Boy named Sue'. I was just trying to toughen you up!

Almost you convince me to drink tea.(!)

A fun, fun post; (thank you for your experience!)

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Pomegranate tea, yum! Had the green tea version in the past, suspect the black tea version is equally tasty.

I an inspired to recall a conversation with my parents shortly after settling in our hometown. There was (is) a Ninth Avenue and a Fifth Avenue, and I wondered aloud why they were pronounced differently.

I was five or six at the time and they had nothing in response.

I guess you could say I've been playing with the English language for a long time...

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Jul 25, 2023Liked by Marjie Alonso

I'm kind of mad that I didn't think of the leaf gag. Chris would have totally bought it.

Ask your father why the verb whelm means "to overwhelm."

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Jul 25, 2023Liked by Marjie Alonso

You writing is both insightful and entertaining. šŸŒ¹

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Jul 25, 2023Liked by Marjie Alonso

After an uphill slog going down hill is welcome respite. Context is everything.

I'm having a discussion as to whether warn and worn are pronounced exactly the same or if they are subtly different.

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Jul 25, 2023Liked by Marjie Alonso

I always love the wordplay between you and your Dad.....they're hilarious!!!! Love your Dad!!!!!

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No wonder you write so well with a philogist father like that. Thatā€™s a lovely photo of you both. Despite the somewhat snarky banter between you both, your love for each other shines through.

Another great piece.

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Jul 25, 2023Liked by Marjie Alonso

I completely agree with the idea of : gruntled as well as gruntling. In fact I can't imagine that those aren't actually words. Ah, all the repartee with your father for so many years!

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Perfect!

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Jul 25, 2023Liked by Marjie Alonso

Brilliant. And I do love iced tea.

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Aug 9, 2023Liked by Marjie Alonso

Listen here you questionable influence, I have enough tea. I HAVE. ENOUGH. TEA.

But I don't have pomegranate tea, and it IS iced tea season...

Do you get some kind of kickbacks for leading your innocent readers so unapologetically down the road to perdition?

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Jul 28, 2023Liked by Marjie Alonso

Your father is a gem... i am so glad to hear a new dad story! I am downi g so much of my Hibiscus ginger tea lately.

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